Let the lady speak!
If she wants to of course…
The tradition of wedding speeches has long been dominated by men, with the father of the bride, groom, and best man typically taking center stage to share their thoughts and feelings about the happy couple. However, times are changing, and more and more women are choosing to take the mic and give speeches on the big day. In this blog, we'll explore why women and their Bridal party should consider giving speeches on the wedding day, and why it's a great opportunity to express themselves and share their love.
Show how awesome you are!
The Bridal party giving a speech on your wedding day is an opportunity to showcase your personality and let your guests get to know you better. Many of your friends and family may only know you in a certain context, but your wedding day is a chance to reveal more of your true self. You can also use this time to share stories and memories, make jokes, and give thanks to those who have supported you throughout your life. This is especially important for women, who may not have had as many opportunities to speak publicly in the past. By taking the mic, you can show your strength, confidence, intelligence and humour.
You can make sure your loved ones get a special mention!
A wedding speech is an opportunity to honor your relationships with the people who mean the most to you. Women often have close bonds with their friends and family members, and giving a speech is a way to publicly acknowledge those relationships. You can thank your bridesmaids for their support, share a heartfelt message to your parents, and express your love for your new spouse. By doing so, you create a deeper connection with your loved ones and let them know how much they mean to you.
Inspire the women around you!
A wedding speech is a chance to inspire others with your words. Women are often role models for their peers, and by speaking on your wedding day, you can encourage others to follow their dreams and pursue their passions. You can share your experiences, offer advice, and motivate others too. Your words have the power to inspire, and a wedding speech is the perfect platform to share your message with the world.
Feel empowered!
Giving a speech on your wedding day is an empowering experience that will stay with you for years to come. It's an opportunity to challenge yourself, step outside your comfort zone, and make a lasting impression on your guests. Even if you're nervous about public speaking, remember that this is your day, and your loved ones are there to support you. With a little preparation and practice, you'll be able to deliver a speech that you and your guests will always remember. Remember that it’s ok if you want to write it down so you remember all those important things you want to say.
There are so many reasons why women should consider giving speeches on their wedding day. It's an opportunity to showcase your personality, honor your relationships, inspire others, and create a lasting memory. So, if you're a bride or bridesmaid-to-be, don't be afraid to take the mic and share your love with the world. Your speech might just be the highlight of the day!
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Tips on writing your speech
Brilliant! You have decided you are going to do a speech but where to start? Start with talking to your friends and family about what their fondest memories are of you and you partner, this will give you a good starting place. You might quickly find perhaps there are some stories you don’t want to share on your wedding day! There are also some greats advice blogs and Instagram account to follow to help you. Here are some we would recommend:
How to Write a Wedding Speech: Examples, Tips, and Advice (brides.com)
Wedding Speech Writer and Delivery Coach | O’Sullivan Speeches (osullivanspeeches.com)
How To Write Your Wedding Speech (Brides' Edition) | Wedding Advice | Bridebook
